Saturday, June 26, 2010

We are called to be Real Men for Christ

Just this past week I attended a Seminary Summer Camp at St. Francis De Sales Seminary. The camp was for teenagers thinking about the possibility of priesthood. I have attended this camp for the past two years and every time I come back home feeling totally refreshed and renewed! This year’s camp consisted of praying the Liturgy of Hours and celebrating Holy Mass. There was also time for games, recreation, prayer, adoration and benediction, and I really appreciate the excellent food!

The camp included talks on spirituality and advice to help us in our discernment process toward the priesthood. One of the talks was given by our assistant vocation director for the Seminary, Fr. Peter Berger, who was ordained just 5 years ago. He spoke about a frequent theme in current movies: “In some movies these days, men usually have the following characteristics; they are disrespectful towards women, dishonest, selfish, violent, totally oblivious to the problems of the world, and have no concern for or thought of God. These days so many men are not respectful and honest, yet other young men look up to them saying “This guy is the man!”

Although these men seem to have everything going for them and are looked up to by men and children all over the world, they are the exact opposite of what Christ wants us to be. When we look closely at Christ’s characteristics we see that He treated women with dignity and respect, sacrificed His life for others, and was full of compassion towards the poor and the broken. Christ loved the world and wanted to save it, even if it meant losing His own life. Christ is the true man to look up too. He was such a great man that even Pontius Pilate recognized this when he uttered the words, “Ecce Homo,” which means “Behold the Man.” Jesus Christ was such a great man that even Pilate recognized He was a man who we should follow. Jesus is calling us to been men just like Him. We are called to been men that others can look up to.

As priests we will be called to serve others by sacrificing our own lives. We are called to be real men like Christ. This is what young men are supposed to be looking up to. Christ asks us to follow Him and conform our lives to Him. Please follow Him and become “real men of Christ.” Please pray for all young men who are discerning a call to the priesthood and are called to be real men for Christ.

* This post is also posted on the website under the prayer page.


  1. John
    What a happy day - you are back! I am so pleased. Keep on keeping on (as the young ones here say) and may God bless you.

  2. John,
    I found your blog via your mom, and I have to say this is a great post. Keep up the good work. My prayers are with you.

  3. I am glad your camp experience was helpful to your discernment. It is truly something special to be called by God to the priesthood -- and, contrary to what movies may imply, priests ARE real men!

  4. Great post John. You're in my prayers.

  5. Way to go John! Cheering for you


  6. Hi John! I'm glad you enjoyed camp. This is a great post on the true meaning of manhood. The world has it backwards like usual. Hopefully, your generation will show the world the truth of the dignity of the human person.

  7. How nice to see you posting again John!
    Francis De Sales is awesome! I'm sure his prayers are offered for all of those attending this wonderful retreat! Thank you for cautioning our youth to seek men who are Christ-like when looking for a mentor or someone to emulate.
    I would also encourage teens to seek other TEENS who are "young men" worthy of admiration because of their Christ-like qualities in order to discern friendships and find good examples among their peers for Christian living. They need only stop by this blog to find one!